[Kerry]

Thats just it, my Christmas day I want with my OH and daughter. No one else. One of my cousins came over last year insisting I go over to another family members and she's quite a forceful woman and made me feel awful for actually saying 'No, I want to spend the day at home'. You'd honestly think I'd told her I wanted to attack the family with an axe

I've never been good at saying 'no' to people at the best of times but Christmas just piles pressure on people.

As for people turning up out of the blue... don't get me started.....