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Originally Posted by NingleBells
well I couldn't comment on your family really as I don't you or them but you should take notice of their advice if they're people who really care about you, most people learn that the hard way though! (myself included!)
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Exactly. It's not that my friends and family were trying to upset or alienate me by disapproving of my ex, but that, being objective (unlike me), they had seen something in him which wasn't right and they were concerned for me. They didn't actively do anything to prevent me marrying him, they just voiced their concerns to me, and they did their best to welcome him once we were married, but he didn't want to know.