[joeysteele]

I had this happen last year,a mate had cheated on his fiance, he told me and I suggested he decide if he really wanted to be with his Fiance or not, if he did then make sure he ended the other relationship,if he didn't want to be with his Fiance then end that relationship.

I didn't want to have to say anything but I did keep on at him to make a decision. He did and even told his Fiance too but they are still together so all worked out okay for them.

Sadly, though I know it all goes really wrong for some people. If its family or 2 close Friends then it must be really hard for someone to keep quiet knowing someone is being hurt or is really going to get hurt soon.I think I would have said something had he not made a clear decision but I also repected he confided in me so felt I was given a chance to help them if I could with any influence I may have.