People confuse gays with camp gays all the time, it's quite frustrating. I know it's difficult for me to assert this since I come off as camp as Christmas (yes, I
went there LT 
) on here but I personally can't stand overbearingly camp people in real life. That boy from the Only Way is Essex makes me cringe.
I don't particularly understand those of either gender, who are homosexual, who then dress and behave like the opposite gender. I guess maybe it's a "I WAS BORN THIS WAY :@" thing but I can't see much of a biological impulse to start fake-tanning and wearing body glitter.