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Originally Posted by Zippy
well what's your solution then?
we all know there's a million scenarios but what they all boil down to are weak minds and submissive dispositions. Neither myself or my sisters would ever be controlled in a relationship and I can say that for a fact.
Like with most things it all goes back to how you're raised. That said, we became strong by seeing our Mothers weakness as an example.
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If I had the solution Zippy, I'd not be sitting faffing about on a Sunday afternoon, making homemade soup and on here.
It's nothing to do with how you are raised. I grew up with a very controlling father, and a mother who was controlled.....(yet ironically, she too was controlling in her own way with me) .... I saw all the signs within the 1st 3 months, yet thought 'I could change him / help him beat it....".
the only person I beat up was myself for not listening to my head (and instinct) rather than my heart. But we all live and learn. It's when you don't learn from your mistakes - that's when you become a fool.