[Angus]

I always treat people as I would wish to be treated, initially. If, however, they do me or mine harm I don't subscribe to the "turn the other cheek" crap - my motto is "don't get mad, get even". It's called Justice, a concept it seems that is anathema to the judicial system these days, bearing in mind the soft sentences and downright perverse decisions made by out of touch judges living in their ivory towers instead of the real world that most of us have to inhabit.