[Ammi]

Yes, I guess it is the like nature v nurture and the social environment and family background dictates a lot. But if you've got say a child who is a 'leader' and another who is a 'sheep', I wonder if they follow that same pattern through adultdood. Same as the bully and victim, or popular and unpopular. Interestingly, just about everybody I know will say they weren't in the popular crowd at school but nobody seems to say they were in the in crowd.