Hard to believe but I''m a have a very kind heart!!!
One of kindest things I've done was give my parents a rather large chunk of money foc- and paid off all their debts (which ironically, turned out to be a huge misjudgment years later....).
Another was taking one of my closest friends who had had a really crappy few years, but who had been a real rock for me during my hard times: on a luxury all expenses paid holiday holiday to Mexico - ie: she got a wad of spendy money, we went shopping for a whole new wardrobe, and when she handed me back the money she hadn't spent - I refused to take it from her, and insisted she use it to pay off the arrears she had in her council tax. She was there for me, and it was a complete joy to see her relax and not worry where the next £10 was coming from.
The pair of us have never quite had a holiday like that one, doubt we will ever again, but by God,the pair of us had an absolute bloody ball
Them were the days.....!!!