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Originally Posted by CharlieO
No, I am very much socially nervous in real life.
I never speak really unless spoken to because I am too terrified and I hardly ever organise anything because I don't want to burden anyone. I feel that if I ask someone they will be hesitant to say no (as i would in that situation) and I'd hate to impose myself on people so I wait to be invited and when I don't get one I totally understand.
Its probably why I don't have many friends and no one really likes me here because I am not vocal enough or present enough.
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That's really interesting Charlie because your perception of yourself is totally different from mine, you come across, to me, as someone who doesn't follow the crowd, will state your own opinions, but gets on well with people (on here). I have also noticed you put yourself down, but in a casual or jokey way, so it isn't ragingly obvious. So yes, I can see your lack of confidence. looking a little bit deeper. Hope you are feeling better about things than you have been lately
Keep smiling.