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Originally Posted by chuck.pass
So Aaron kissed Tom as a dare, but he didn't sleep in the same bed as him practically cuddling him as a dare. Whether Tom was more interested in being there with Aaron than the opposite, Aaron didn't set boundaries with his relation towards him because he didn't want to upset him but as pathetic as it may sound not setting boundaries gave Tom the impression Aaron was leading him on.
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But lots of them share beds & cuddle in a completely unsexual way, even other blokes in the house. And why should Aaron have to 'set boundaries' with Tom? Tom knew he wasn't gay, just because Aaron may have been flirting with him, more in a jokey way, it doesn't mean he was in the slightest bit interested in him. I flirt with women sometimes, doesn't mean I fancy them or want to jump into bed with them... And I can bet that if Aaron had of sat Tom down before & said "Tom, I am not gay, I just want you to know we can only ever be friends..." that Tom would have flown off the handle & had some hissy fit & that too...