Staying in when you wish you were partying hard feels awful and vice-versa.
But most of the times I'd rather go out to my favourite clubs/bars, have a very wild night then go to an after hours party and dance until 11:00/12:00.
I also really like inviting friends to spend the weekend at my house too. There's plenty of space, my family isn't too bothered about the mess and noise and we usually go out on friday then we all go back to my house to rest for a bit and on saturday, my sister and her friends usually have some barbecue with loud music etc so we just stay there eating trying to get rid of the headache
at night we go out again and on sunday afternoon we watch football together at an outdoor bar near my house.