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Originally Posted by tweetypiebabe1
She is only 20 and none of us have any idea what experience she's had relationship wise. Like Jay says, she's a bit naive in the fact that she doesn't know a lot of stuff relationship wise. You remember the conversations she's had and she always second guesses herself, she always asks the guys how they interpret things and whether they are good things or bad things, in terms of how she acts or what they think of her.
Is she immature. no, but she is overly sensitive, as someone pointed out, especially when alcohol comes into play and she is naive when it comes to relationships and the opposite sex. Not everyone who's 20 has had a proper relationship, she is still young after all.
And for those who are saying by the time I was this age I was doing that, it's not what this is about. This is about how she deals with relationships and her emotions, not life as a whole. I'm a year older than her and I'm quite mature because of my life experiences as well but not everyone matures at the same rate and who knows what her life experiences have been like. She may have been fortunate and never had the struggles some of us have had.
You guys gotta look at the big picture whether you're for a person or not. Clearly most aren't afraid to admit it when their person is right but don't be afraid to admit if they're wrong as well. She has a lot of faults but who doesn't. She's a twenty year old young woman who's clearly trying to find her way in life and she's just hitting a few potholes along the path.
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Mature enough to jump Aaron's bones though eh? One minute a fully consenting adult, the next a spoilt brat. Most people grow out of the childish tantrums and tears for attention by the time they hit puberty. But there's always the exception I guess
