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Originally Posted by tweetypiebabe1
When entering the house do they open up themselves to public opinion? Yes. Should it be a judgment per say? No. Why? Because we don't know every minute detail of their being.
Do the public have a right to form opinions of the housemates based on what is being presented? Yes. But I don't necessarily think it's a judgement. I think that's the wrong term. I think when you base an opinion, on a rocky foundation, ie not having all the facts, then that's a judgement but if it's displayed plain as day then it's not. I could be talking s***, I could've completely lost the plot on what the definition of judgement is as, I probably am and I probably have because at this point I've gotten so lost in this conversation I have no idea what the point is anymore.
I think people need to watch the way they 'judge' a person or a situation because 1. they do it in a distasteful manner that is highly uncalled for and 2. the same situation can be or could've happened in their life so yes, the 'glass house' saying does apply, in my opinion.
Like I said, I don't think 'judge' is the right word so you missed my point and I also don't think Faye mentioned Aaron's son as a way to justify her childishness. She did it out of anger, in my opinion.
And it was Jay who lost it not Harry, Harry went in the diary room to apologise about how he reacted, from what I saw.
I just personally think, which may very well be wrong, if you know the facts, or events and circumstances are presented plain as day in front of you, then that's not necessarily a judgement. It's a matter of like and dislike, forming an opinion based on the facts. If you don't understand me then whatever cause this conversation has gone way beyond what the topic of this thread is actually about.
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completely disagree with everything you've said.
It's not up to you to advise or suggest how people perceive the housemates, and to what level and whether it is correct to judge them or not.
I'm happy to judge on what I hear and see. Was even happier doing so when we had live feed.