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Originally Posted by vesavius

Because the passive aggressive controller does not say things in a loud clear voice.

They let it happen, whining under their breath, and then control the mood (and others) by sulking, using it as a weapon.

They prefer to act the martyred victim after the event.

Tbh, it is embarrassing behaviour in a 10 year old child... from a 30 year old man it's just vomit inducing.

You word it so well