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Originally Posted by rusticgal
Cromwell.... its Jem (not Gem....COS THAT SHE ISNT)
If you think thats a mother 'supporting' her daughter then you and I are never going to agree. For a mother to go on National television and nominate the person who her daughter enjoyed the company of...having come to the opinion that Aaron was 'messing with her head' judging it from the amount of viewing we got WAS WRONG IMO.
I dont think she 'hates' Aaron....I just think that her and Jems attitude showed complete lack of sensitivity and thought towards their daughter/sister.
As a parent I know the protection you feel and have over your children....but I can assure you I would have given my support to her judgement considering she was living in the house with him rather than make that judgement on her viewing.
As for Jem....she didnt even try with Aaron... thats just the behaviour I believe of a very jealous sister.
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Like i said i am well aware you disagree with her criticism, my point is they were both acting in the interest's of Faye. The idea you can relate what you would do if your kid was in the house vs what Faye's mum
should do, suggests you don't realize that every kid is different, and you know Faye through knowing your own, better than Faye's mum knows Faye. Quite simply you do not.
If your young Daughter had a history of falling for terrible blokes, and you think (rightly or wrongly) it is happening again you may choose to trust her judgment and hold your tongue. That is your choice, but you shouldn't dictate the actions of another Mother in that situation, i just find it incredibly false, i'm afraid.