I originally started appearing offline because I was stalked
I was looking at the hot guy thread but went to make a cuppa so it said I had been looking at it for like 15 mins or something and people took the piss.
Then I started appearing online again, but I got a PM from someone...I was running a bath and pottering about...came back down to 2 PMs. The original one and one calling me an ignorant bitch and threatening to report me to admin for ignoring mod duties or something daft like that.