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Originally Posted by exoticrosebud
what ever his reasons it was an extreamly selfish thing to do. Did he not give a ****e what the finding of his body would do to his sons if they had found him. did it not occur to him that it might not have worked and he would have been in bigger rorment! The very least he could have done was leave a letter for his family explaining why he did it.. So what if he had a gay relationship. this is 2011....who the eff cares.....everyone would have got over the shock.. and yes some would have passed the usual judgements....same as people will pass judgements about anyone and everything in the public eye....but if you are going to do suicide....dont leave the mess and heartache for someone else to cope with..bloody selfish....
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Unfortunately: suicide and
'the mess left behind for others to cope with' go hand in hand in the vast majority of times. For whatever reason: the man reached a point that he felt it was the only option available to him - and making that choice must be an incredibly difficult one to make: and carry out. Selfish - yes. To end your own life also takes a hell of a lot of courage to actually carry out.
This tabloid fodder now starting to appear is the very thing I made mention of when the news first broke the other week.
TBH, it matters not a jot NOW the reasons for Gary taking that decison
as far as the public are concerned, it's a hard enough thing for his immediate family to be coming to terms with - something few 'survivors of suicide' rarely recover from - without having all this carry on going on all around them on top of everything else.
This is no longer public gossip fodder material as far as I'm concerned (I'm speaking of the media and their bloodthirsty need for details now, for it that will only serve to hurt those close to Gary - and that I think is despicable).
There are times when less is more, and personally, I think this is one of these times.