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Originally Posted by Niamh.
I think you can stop yourself falling in love with a person yeah. I believe people mistake strong attraction for love, I don't believe you can love someone without knowing them very well first, that's a very shallow idea of love imo. Love is earned and worked at.
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Yes I agree, in a lot of ways I think infatuations can feel stronger and more intense than love and therefore mistaken for love but that kind of intensity is hard to sustain..it's possible that they can 'settle' into a deeper love but often they don't