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Originally Posted by Ammi
...to start a life together..which would you choose..?
..I agree with Deanna's point of view
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So did I, the day can be amazing firstly for what it is about and the fact 2 people want to commit for life to each other.
When I hear about the debt people have gone into just for the wedding is beyond me, I know for instance someone who financed his daughter's wedding,took out a 3 year loan to help cover it,he is still paying for it yet, the Marriage however broke down after 18 months and all I can think of is what a waste of effort and money.
I agree the day should be special of course but it is ridiculous what extent some go to as to the costs for it, I agreed with Deana completely as to what she said, it made total sense.
Luke S made it out she was money grabbing but if she was getting married, she was actually saving the funds for them both not wasting it on a lavish wedding to impress others.