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Originally Posted by Novo
I don't really see how that links in with the Conor and Arron situation though if anything close to domestic violence was going on in the house then they would have been kicked out by now and nothing i have seen really has anything to do with domestic violence other then the threat Conor made which he later thought about and regretted saying it.. i just find it really silly that people are comparing them in this way.. he belittles Adam the same way he does with Deana so i don't think he targets Women either
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Ok. I'll explain a bit more/ better if I may?
To repeat, I'm not saying that domestic violence is going on in the house. Bullying yes, but that's a separate issue. What I'm saying, Novo, is that the way Conor and Arron speak to and about other housemates reminds me of how DV starts and I find it uncomfortable to watch. I know you are entitled as everyone else to post your opinions and am not looking to argue with you at all, but please just consider that just because you may not understand where I'm coming from, you having never had any experience of DV I hope?, I don't take the subject lightly.
So when I asked for people, and I didn't specifically aim it just at yourself, for it not to be made a joke of, it was very offputting to have you make even more of a joke about it. I left the thread because I didn't want to fall out .... Again lol.
I experienced being sworn at, controlled and called names for a couple of years before it began to escalate. It's a very slow gradual process and you get worn down.
You get to the point where you believe all the stuff they say to you and that everything is your fault.
Anyway, I've said all I can. I hope you can see my point? I don't know how well I've explained it. It's a tricky subject.