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Originally Posted by Scream
I don't support Becky, think she can be quite malicious and over the top however I think people are being quite stupid.
Just because Becky says she is happy about being fat and doesn't care what people say, it doesn't mean that's how she actually feels or doesn't make it acceptable for people to make rude comments about her weight..
Even if she doesn't care it's not for others to comment so Luke A is in the wrong and I don't see how people can try to stick up for him with, 'yh but becky dunt care she sed tht she is happi bein fat so it dnt matta?xx' It's just stupid.
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It's very simple really. Luke A said that Becky doesn't respect her BMI, which (as Becky might say) 'litrullly' means that she doesn't care about her weight.
And you ask 'so what if she doesn't care about her weight'? Well that's all he's saying - that she doesn't care about her weight.
Not quite sure what part of that you're not getting, to be honest.
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Originally Posted by Becky_Out_NOW
Becky has done and said so much in that house that is just "nasty" (as she likes to call other housemates all the time)...that I can understand how Luke A lost his temper and without thinking, said what he said. He was angry, and rightly so. While it may have been insensitive to say, he did not say it to her face, or to her friends in the house. Yes, he has to answer to the public for saying it, and yes, it was a bad thing to say, but Becky has to expect that she can't be the only one in the house to dish it out, and not have to take it too. She had been trash talking Luke A for weeks previous to get "in" with the insiders, and then tells Luke A that she just "sings his praises" about him all the time. I'd have to say this is the first thing Luke A has ever done to her, and it's the worst thing he's ever said or done in the house, for his entire duration thus far. The same cannot be said about Becky. She stirs the pot constantly, spreading the gossip, lighting the fires, and she's even stealing what little food her housemates have to eat, and hoarding it under her bed! Some "friend" she is to her "alliance". I think continually stealing food from all of your housemates is much worse than stating an obvious truth that she does not respect her BMI. Also, while she may have been born on the heavy side, and she may in fact have a slow metabolism, or a problem with her thyroid, or on a medication that made her put on a lot of weight...none of that changes the fact that she refuses to exercise, refuses to eat healthy, and really does absolutely nothing to slow the process of weight gain. In fact, she has stated many times she wants to get bigger, and expressed dissapointment when she learned she had lost some weight in the house. So this is not a girl who is showing to any of her housemates, or the public (until the BMI comment was revealed to her) that she is insecure, remorseful, shy, embarrassed, or ashamed of her weight. Of course we know it was a comment that was hurtful, but her reaction is just a tad overkill, no?
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WOAH!!!!
*paragraphs*
I agree with you, of course.