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Originally Posted by KingOfTheMods
I'm a pretty staunch anti Becky campaigner partly because of her personality, I pegged her as soon as she entered the house as a nasty piece of work and a quick look through my post's will confirm this. However I see a lot of people jumping to her defence when they think people are having a go because she's fat when a lot of the time this is not the reason for the dislike.
I will admit one of the reason's I don't like her is because she's fat and because of some of her defender's eloquent arguments I've tried to look at why this is. I'm in HM Forces so I'm quite disciplined when it comes to a lot of things including fitness and looking after yourself and this is the only reason I can come up with. But my problem is this, despite all the things I dislike about her the first thing I think when I look at her is, eugh what a mess. Am I out of order??
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I'm ex forces and was also very disciplined with myself regarding fitness and diet. Now I'm older I'm much less regimented and tend to go easier on myself in that regard. I also take a 'broader' view, pardon the pun, and I'm a lot less judgemental about others, not only in the way they look but also in the way they choose to live their lives. It's a truism to say that unless we've walked a mile in someone's shoes we have no idea what that particular person is going through or has been through.
Having said that, I wouldn't say you were out of order because you have a strong reaction to obesity. We ALL have our flaws and I probably have more than most
