[lostalex]

on the topic... I don't even let my BF's see me shower. If any guy ever tried to "measure me" ??? are you kidding? not a chance. If i even caught him looking at the tags in my jeans to check my size there would be problems. he would not be a happy camper, and i'd quickly remind him of all of his own inadequecies, if he wants to get into measurements, i could think of plenty other measurements of a man that i could humiliate him with.

If i ever feel even slightly judged, i go on the offensive with the quickness. they usually learn fast that way.