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Originally Posted by Clootie Dumpling

It's less about what she says rather than the way she says it, to whom and how.

See link below which lists all the charactersistics of a bully, which is what Julie is:

http://www.bullyonline.org/workbully/serial.htm

Not the bully word again. My daughter was bullied at school for years and then at university because she was so intelligent. Believe me Julie is not a bully. Maybe unpleasant behaviour but it is not bullying. Asking a man if he is being played cannot be bullying of the female concerned. This only happened once that I saw. Bullying has to be repeated attacks. You may call a friend a few names because you are mad at them. That is not bullying.
CBB is a game and every one who goes in has supposedly been assessed as to whether they can play the game.
If a contestant is nice to you and then noms behind your back does not amount to bullying. That is the game and a risk for the person because the audience will turn against someone who is blatantly two faced.