I did suggest that but she says she doesnt need that, she doesnt see herself as a victim, just unlucky, and she reckons being around others who do feel sorry for themselves (no other way to put that
) might make her feel that way too. She has come to terms with everything besides being refused the surgery that she was originally told would be available at this stage. She is keeping her mcmillan nurse on though for the moment, as shes acting as kind of..a counsellor. She comes once a week to let my mum vent, and to give her advice and that.