[Jack_]

Hm, a difficult one. Guess it could be seen as a bit creepy to some, but then you're only doing a good deed and at the end of the day, it's not the kids fault.

It's not like you can be arrested for it so you could just think ***** it and go for it. And that's a pretty damn good present and a lovely gesture, if either the parents or your ex refuses, that says more about them than it does you.