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Originally Posted by Jesus.H.Christ
So I was seeing this girl, and we were pretty serious. We'd talked about moving in and stuff, but things didn't work out in the end.
She has a daughter, who changed my world. She is an amazing little girl, bright as a button, but feisty to boot. We were inseparable when I was over at her house, and we were always doing activities and stuff.
I'd bought her Christmas presents a couple of months ago because I knew what she wanted - she loved messing with my piano, so that's what I'd got her. Now, it really isn't appropriate for me to be buying her piano's as I don't see her anymore, and I've split up with her mom. But I'd bought her a couple of tops as fillers, that will look really cute on her.
I haven't spoken to my ex for a couple of months, and I have no intention to either. I'm not using this as a way to make contact or any reason like that, but I'd really like to give the little one her smaller presents.
My ex's parents really liked me, so I was thinking of just popping them over there for her, so I don't have to have any dealings with my ex.
I guess I'm looking for people to help me rationalise this. If it was my daughter, then I'd like to be contacted first about an ex giving her a present, but we parted on such bad terms that there is no way she'd agree to it.
I'd hate for her to think, that I suddenly just stopped going round and I don't care for her anymore, when that's not true. My heart just bursts when I think about her little face.
So, peoples, whaddya reckon?
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...if you have a good relationship with her parents, then it's a good idea to ask them their thoughts and perhaps send the gifts through them...they can ask her first, whether it's ok for them to give them to her....
..it's very sad when children are involved, because it's natural you would get attatched to her, as I'm sure she did with you...but unfortunately, you will have to accept your ex's decision as she is her mum....hopefully she will allow her to have them.....it's a lovely thought....
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