[Cherie]

I wasn't married but I was living with my now husband for about 7 years, we got married soon after (my meltdown) and had two kids by the time I was 35 so I suppose that did contribute to my sense of well being heading into 40. 31 is still very young for fatherhood, nice thing about being a Dad is you can experience that right into your 50/60s even 70s so dont panic!