[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Raph

really? I know you haven't specified what you're getting at with threads like this but I really think questions like this are extremely offensive to the gay community. I was really thinking about this yesterday - why should it matter? Or more importantly, why should a person have to even consider which the identify with?

I think the main problem with this is that 'top' and 'bottom' often come with a connotation of the masculine versus the feminine role. This really frustrates me because the whole point of being in a relationship with another guy is to be with another GUY, and therefore I think these stereotypical identifications are extremely shallow and unnecessary.

Not to mention this is in effect a rather personal question, as well as a gross question which shouldn't be brought up per say on a big brother forum - but i'm totally not in the position to articulate that so I wont.

I know you didn't specify what you were getting at with the question, but answers such as that of Lucas and others really put me off ahhhhhhh

aye,some one got pounced on for making a joke about sausages and now look