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It takes two people to create a baby, so I do think it should be an equal decision, but as it is the woman who has to go through the process of being pregnant and giving birth, the decisive say should always lie with the woman. It's tough I think, but it's probably tougher on women, because of that extra responsibility that comes with having a child. In instances where one potential parent wants one thing and the other wants the opposite, it should always be up to the woman to decide - it's her body. Must be horrible to be stuck in that dilemma though.