i sometimes feel bad and that i don't make the effort to get to know anyone outside of a select few, but i guess i would just make the effort if i found them truly interesting... some members are best as a kind of "forum figure" role rather than absorbing them into "oh that guy i talked to for three weeks before i got bored"
maybe i'm just a bitch
but i've already made close friends on here so don't really see the need