[lostalex]

I can't speak about women, but i've been with some "big" guys before, and it was good.
I've been with guys that were thinner than me, and with guys that were bigger than me and honestly it really is about the person. I'm definitely not turned off by someone just cause they have some extra meat on their bones.

I'm really sick of the fat hate that I see everywhere, especially when it's directed at people that arn't even that fat.

Honestly, and maybe this is something that comes with age, but as a 31 year old gay male, I really am attracted to all sorts of body shapes, and races, and ages.

If you asked me when i was 17 what i was attracted to, then it would probably be much more narrow minded, but really, the "ideal" of beauty in society, is not the only thing that i find sexy.

I think a chubby asian guy is sexy, i think a tall lean black guy is sexy, i think a 45 y/o hairy white guy is sexy. I dunno if it just comes with age, but i honestly get turned on by many different body shapes.

That's not to say that i don't understand the ideal perfect 20 y/o abercrombie body, that is absolutely sexy, but it's not the be all/end all. It's the ideal.