A poster on DS said this about the 'goes both ways' thing. I agree 100% with what they said. They managed to get across what they meant without sounding aggressive, or bitter, or anything like that.
http://forums.digitalspy.co.uk/showp...postcount=1130
As for dating someone 'directly opposed to my own race'...I have. I do not champion Ginas cause at all, I think she was bang out of order to scream racism. But some posts in this thread are questionable at the very best.