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Originally posted by kkarank
I am Indian and to be honest it irks me to death when policitians and ignorant public/media in general run a sprint to proclaim anything and everything as racist.
I can imagine how a white person would be getting frustrated to death by the fact that they cannot express themselves without being in the eternal danger of having their lives hijacked and careers truncated if they express themselves from the bottom of their hearts.Think about it - this kind of frustration plays right into the hands of the likes of BNP !!
the problem is the way Jade expressed her dislike for Shilpa is crass and crude and is symptomatic of the chav culture in UK which is quite prevelant.she is a low life and you look at her pickpocket mother and it is not hard to imagine why- frankly you could hate her even if you were blind 
Shilpa is a stuck up bitch who has spent the 31 yrs of her life in her mother's womb with a thumb in her mouth and has no clue on how to behave in an ethnically diverse group.She is grand,prim,slushy and controlling and to be honest would do my head in too - just that i would not express myself with a bit more class and eloquence
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So, perhaps, Shipa doesnt know how to behave in the group but they are not making it easy by they behaviour towards her - picking on her all the time. She is not behaving grand or prim but just - WELL - as that was how most Asian women are brought up to be. I came to UK 20 years ago - and i remember being uncomfortable with loud brash people especially women. I was shocked to see so much disrespect amongst young people. The humour is different, conversation topic is different. I am settled well now but if i were to be stuck with Jade, Jo and Danielle, i would feel out of place. I have made many good caucasian friends in UK and they are same brainwave asme. I do also have friends like Jade, Jo & Danielle which i am polite to but that's all. My children are more English like their dad as they wree born and educated here in UK - but my oldest were appalled at the 3 girls' attituede- all that shouting, face cringing, swearing, backstabbing and nastiness when she watched the programee on Friday and Saturday.