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Originally Posted by cookiemonster
so is this how people get away with abuse nowadays then? label it as 'role play' what a bunch of crap. the only role he was playing was the wife beater
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She was playing too at first, quite obviously. Like I said, the point where she was saying "game over" / "this is too dark for me, lets lighten the tone" was when she said they should be sensible and have a hug. The problem was that he wasn't listening by that point and carried on. That IS a problem, obviously, and not to be extreme but... it's often how rape within a couple can occur without the person doing it realising that they have. Not that I'm calling him a rapist now - just that it's concerning that he didn't read the signals well and that he believed she was still enjoying it past the point where she was comfortable.
If she genuinely HAD been up for it then, honestly, there's nothing wrong with the things that were being done / said between two consenting adults.
Why do you think it went on for so long before big brother stopped it? They thought it was mutual and might result in a bit of cover-twitching action. Then someone clocked that she was getting scared and felt trapped, and a stuttering Big Brother desperately called him off. Big Brother let it go too far, too. They should have called him in and cooled him down at the slap on the butt. Hazel wasn't upset then, he could have had a warning and that would have been it, but they wanted to see on-screen sex so they let it progress. Oops.