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Originally Posted by Barker
I'm sorry joey, I hate to disagree with you as I really value you as a member but Callum did not cry because of Charlie. He made it very clear in fact, that it was bigger than just him liking Charlie and not being liked back. For Callum, the issue was that he always has to put a front up to please people, and behave in the way that he believes they expect him to behave. And here's why Dan comes into the equation. Callum was being his genuine self being kind and supportive. But then, Dan had a problem with it and criticized him for it, mainly behind his back might I add. As a result, due to his low self esteem to begin with, Callum resorted back to the 'lad' type character that he expected would please everyone, because people wouldn't accept him for who he was. As a result, Charlie criticized him for not being real. The issue with identity is what upset Callum, not Charlie liking him. The guy is such a gentleman and unfortunately people like Dan who are so focussed on themselves and winning, need to bring nice people like Callum down to feel better about themselves.
I know you're a Dan fan Joey, and I respect that. But in all honesty, he really is my second least favourite housemate in Big Brother history, just because of how sly and manipulative he is. He was one of my favourites at the start because I saw him as a nice guy, but he really hasn't been and the way he treats Callum is really unfair and quite cruel, in my opinion.
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Thats what bothers me about Dan, he doesnt like Callum which is fair enough but i dont like how he has gone around to every HM numerous times telling them how he feels about Callum and what he thinks his wrong with him then finishes off with but that just my opinion. He did it with Michael & he has done it with Wolfy. The only one who accepts Callum good side/bad side is Sam. He has shown so much more maturity than Dan who is a lot older than Sam. Callum knows he is damned if he does & damned if he doesnt.