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Originally Posted by boomoo

No one can say that Daley was right and no one should be making excuses for Hazel. She began this flirting and took it way too far with a man she knew nothing about. If she had gone into that room with Daley and settled to sleep, with none of this flirting the rest would not have happened. What you say is current thinking but it is dangerous behaviour for a woman. Hazel was just fortunate that she tried this inside the big brother house where the action was being monitored. Women can wear their shorts and they will be safe as long as they do not start shaking a ' a red rag in front of a bull'.

It would help us all if men and women learnt from this episode.

You know one of the first things people say when they find out that their neighbour is an axe wielding maniac, who kept women locked in his basement, is "but he was always such a quiet, friendly sort".

You never know whats going on in someones head until you live with them and get to see them at their best, and worst.

You cant blame a girl for flirting and thinking that the guy that see now considers a friend, is in reality a thug. Nothing in life prepares you for that. If all that she has known is good decent men, then why would be expect any different here?

Its wrong to place blame on the victims. Even if its only a brief brush with violence, there are lasting effects.