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Originally Posted by DanaC
What she started to say to Hazel, and more importantly what she thought in order to start to say it, was deeply offensive to the person she was talking to. The fact that she stopped herself halfway doesn't make it less hurtful. It's the fact that she thought it that must have hurt like hell.
I'm no Hazel fan, but I was totally with her on that one.
The implication was clear: Charlie was afraid that her inadvertent drunken aggression was going to lead to her being removed from the house like Daley was. Because Daley's removal was preceded by BB talking to hazel about the incident. And because Hazel had indicated that she considered Charlie's behaviour to have been 'a little aggressive'. Effectively she had equated the two situations in her mind, implying that Daley's behaviour was as inadvertent and blameless as her own, and that Hazel's talk with BB was what led to him being kicked out.
As her friend, hazel had every right to feel very hurt by that implication. The fact that she changed her mind about it and decided that it wasn't really the same thing after all, in no way detracts from the hurt that she thought it at all, even for a moment.
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Bless you if you think Charlie can equate with her mind. i am afraid I dont
I have friends who have similar problems when they drink, we spend nights out trying to avoid them being offensive to anyone, it gets tedious.
I also think she has got a bit carried away with all the attention. I am not a Hazel fan either but she didnt deserve that from a so called friend.
I think Charlie knows what she is doing but thinks I can just say sorry and everything will be fine- as I said it gets tedious, no matter how nice
people are.