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Old 07-08-2013, 10:01 AM #15
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The HM's couldn't pre guess who family and friends would choose and why. Charlies friend voted for personal reasons not because as Charlie back peddled (as she does) because her friend was giving her an indirect message. Her friend was very direct and strong in her opinion similar to the stronger housemates like Hazel and Gina. Im surprised Charlie hasnt clashed with her friend too.

Dexters mum voted Hazel for gaining peoples confidence then using info against them which she said "could be very dangerous for Dexter?"

Twins mum voted Charlie as she manipulates the house and talks behind their backs about them.

Sophies nan voted Hazel for using men and her big drums lol, very funny woman.
Ginas boyfriend voted Hazel for being fake, and Gina dislikes her and Charlie as shes sly not genuine and he didnt like how she acted with Callum and Dexter.


How I see it, Hazel and Gina have become arch enemies in the house. Charlie wants to be friends with everyone. So Gina confides in Charlie about Hazel, Hazel confides in Charlie about Gina, Charlie has the confided in Gina about Hazel and Hazel abot Gina, both arch enemies you cant do that because Gina and Hazel take shots at eachother what Charlie has said is gonna come out and in that way she is gonna look two faced and disloyal.

The only way she can overcome it was to be honest with them. I dont agree with what you say,and be honest to the person about how she feels because she does have opinions but she dont air them because she wants to be liked by everyone and then of cause when she makes a wrong move and Hazel or Gina confront her she suddenly brings up all her resentments and they think well if you felt this way why not say something why pretend everythings ok or worse talk about it to the person who dislikes me most in the house.

She did exactly the same thing with Dexter and Callum. Instead of being honest and saying straight out dont fancy either of you she said nothing, or worse she encouraged it in her behaviour rather than being honest and risk losing the attention she got from them.

Because she doesnt make her boundaries clear for the pay off of being liked by everyone she actually ends up causing conflict because no one knows where they really stand with her until she feels backed into a corner and comes out with a resentment which can sound quite cutting and out there because the HM cant see it coming. I dont know if its a conscious behaviour alot of people do it and are confused as to why they keep ending up in the situation they do.

However, as it showed last night Charlie did hint at Dexter to be the one Hazel should pick. Charlies indirectness gets her in trouble.

Last edited by kate2013; 07-08-2013 at 10:07 AM.
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