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Originally Posted by sampvt
Eh up, the homophobia police are out, who rattled their cage. The definition of a man is pretty obvious to all us old farts but in todays weird and wonderful modern world with all kinds of interpretations, who really knows. We now get men changing sex to be a woman then turning into a lesbian to be with a woman and then they complain that they are not respected or understood. I am so glad my world and its values make sense as black and white were always easier to understand than today grey colours.
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Homophobia police? Maybe if you weren't homophobic people wouldn't feel the need to pull you up on it, just a thought
The definition of a male is a being with a penis, actually. And the opposite for a female. That's your biological
sex, gender is a social construct that is fluid and open to interpretation. This idea that women should cook and clean and play with Barbies whilst men should do the maintenance work on the house and go to the gym and act like suchalad~ are stereotypes developed over generations, they aren't actually real and set in stone you know. If a woman chooses to have short spikey hair and piercings, that doesn't make her a man nor does it automatically mean she must be gay, unless of course you're one of those that likes pandering to ignorant stereotypes. The same applies to men, if a male wishes not to go to the gym, be interested in cars, football and wants also to wear make up because they lack self confidence (God forbid a male actually have self confidence issues and be insecure, I mean ****ing hell how dare they eh?), that doesn't mean they aren't male and it doesn't mean they're a 'closet gay' (seriously, stop reading tabloid newspapers), it just means they're not willing to pander to societies ill informed stereotypes and wish to live their lives how
they want to, not how they're apparently supposed to live it. Aside from genital and biological sex differences 'gender' doesn't really exist, because boundaries are being blurred and rightly so, you know there'd be a lot less discrimination and segregation if we continued to play with the concept of gender more, but then I guess segregation is something in your day that was oh so fantastic wasn't it?
And I can't even believe the remarks you've just made about transgender people, another transphobic comment from you I see. Actually, it isn't a case of 'oh today I fancy being a woman and then I'll decide I'm interested in women too', it's a psychological disorder where said person feels like they have been born into the wrong body and suffer years of mental trauma as a result whilst ignorant people that can't be bothered to educate themselves on the subject continue to ridicule them for what is actually a deep rooted and extremely serious issue, people that experience this end up taking their own lives because they feel they're not understood and they can't deal with the mental stress, but hey who cares cause omg it's different and weirdddd man~.
You can have a male that feels as if they were born into the wrong body, has gender reassignment to become female but is straight and is attracted to men. Yes, that's right...they are straight because they are a woman, not a man. A woman. And why? Because that's what they feel they are, and who are you or I to determine otherwise? You also have bisexual people that have had their gender reassignment or is that oh so confusing?
It's really not that difficult, do some reading and you might understand it a bit more.
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Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy
Ignore them ,hes pushing to get me banned, its daily now ......  |
Actually it's the first time I've decided to pull you up on one of these comments for a long while, if I did it daily you'd know about it