[James]

Originally posted by Sasha
Ive only come on as i have been told about your statement on MSN. I guess some could call it gracious, but grace wouldve attempted to resolve the situation in private!

Since i have come on to TIBB i have done nothing except have a laugh, it is not my intention to have e-fight/e-conflicts with people. Anyone who has objectivity can see everyone of my posts have been about having a joke - there is too much drama in the real world without the need for it in cyberland!

I am new and have no awareness of the history you and other members share. However, if i did it still does not affect me. I have had a laugh over the "rumour" about you and James in the past... and something I too found amusing. I am a tad disapointed it is NOT true as according to you he was good in bed.

It is normal for the jealous e-girlfriend to get angry with her e-bf's lover, it was all part of the joke. A joke i thought you were playing but decided NOT too when it offended you.

If you were offended by the witch comment you couldve u2u'd me and i would have edited it. If you thought it was a geniunue insult then let me assure you "witch" and "dog" are not the insults i would use if i was REALLY affected by your actions and angry at you.

As i was NOT taking you or the whole rumour seriously i didnt viciously insult you with a barrage of swear words or bring in anything REALLY personal about you. A geniunely ANGRY person would have.

In all reality I thought this "e-rift" wouldve been a good next chapter to the Jamesha story plot... The whole time it was going on I was in MSN with James taking the p**s out of him and actually trying to see why he didnt meet you as you lived so close. I even asked you in for a 3some (which you sadly declined).

I am assuming your statement was written as you were "spoken to", only cos i was spoken to last night for my "behaviour". I was shocked that moderators intervened in what was obviously a joke and it took it to a next level.

I was also very angry to find out I was given special treatment, I had no idea until about 1.30am that mods were asked NOT to warn me.

Yes I have abused my e-relationship on TIBB but that was only to get new icons and not to avoid the TIBB rules. It was only at that stage I was informed that people were upset that i had insulted you. Up until that stage I assumed it was part of the joke.

As a mod myself, (on another site) this situation couldve been ressolved by a simple u2u to check if it was still a joke OR a u2u saying the joke has got out of hand. However there was none of that and I was oblivious to the fact it was becoming a "drama" becuase the whole time i was viewing James pics in MSN (What a hottie!).

As for me and James, yes it was a little bit of e-fun to start with, to be honest it was never part of the "sasha plan" for him to submit - i like the chase! But over the past week i am glad he has as he is a nice guy and a great e-buddy who i can chat to for ages about everything.

I was banned last night over this for x hours, and decided to leave as i couldnt believe i would get banned for having a laugh. I decided after my ban that TIBB was way to serious for my type of humour and wasnt the place for me. Maybe an over reaction, but people do hasty things when they are angry and upset.

I really think this whole thing is a misunderstanding. Thanks to everyone for explaining it all. I hope you can continue posting here, if other people had got to know you like I have they'd realise what a nice person you are. I shouldn't have said the thing about giving special treatment to the other mods but it was only cause I feel I know what you're really like

"But over the past week i am glad he has as he is a nice guy and a great e-buddy who i can chat to for ages about everything. "

aww thanks

Not sure about how the pics showed me to be a 'hottie' though lol.