[Ammi]

..wow, that's a deep question for a Sunday morning Mizzy, but strangely I thought about it recently as well...I went to the coast for the day in the summer with my OH and there was an older couple sitting on a bench by the sea eating fish and chips and just chatting and smiling..and I thought 'that's how I want to be'...just growing old with the love of my life...but I don't think I like the idea of growing old on my own..so I guess the answer is that I want to live as long as he does and no longer...but that does depend on health because I would never want him to become a carer or anything or my children to either....