WISE RESPONSE STICKS!
Answer: No we wouldn't, because Helen did purrsue Paul mercilessly, but in a very 'Helen' way. We loved her for it and spurred her on.
Mind you, there were several other crucial differences:
A) She wasn't a complete strumpet
B) She wasn't After £50,000 from Playboy
C) He was far more mature and despite his virtuoso stories of wild amor was quite cautious and conservative with a small c.
D) He was a gentleman and refused to take advantage of her vulnerability
E) They thought about the effect it would have on their families
and F) MOST IMPORTANTLY:
THEY WERE IN LURVE!!
Michelle is the equivalent of a one night grope Stuart would have met in Ibiza