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Your Existing Situation
Desires to be respected by others in order to gain their trust and support for his own personal gain.
Your Stress Sources
"Feeling trapped in a unpleasant situation and feels powerless to fix it. Upset and irritated because he feels doubtful he will ever be able to achieve his goals. Feeling frustrated and emotionally drained, and longs to escape. Needs to get away and have the freedom to make his own decisions. "
Your Restrained Characteristics
Open and emotionally involved in relationships and easily finds satisfaction through sexual activity.
Emotionally demanding and will involve himself in close relationships but won't get too involved or give too much of himself.
He is being forced to be happiness and pleasure on hold for new due to his limiting circumstances.
Applies tough standards to his potential partner and demands an unrealistic perfection in his sex life.
Applies tough standards to his potential partner and demands an unrealistic perfection in his sex life.
Your Desired Objective
"Always trying to make a good impression on others, and is constantly watching to see if he is succeeding in this. Is interested in how others react to him; this makes him feel in control. Strategically plans out ways to gain further influence over others and special recognition. Is easily distracted by the pleasingly beautiful and original."
Your Actual Problem
"Feeling a lack of energy, he does not wish to be involved in further activity or give in to demands. He is feeling powerless causing him stress, agitation, and irritation, all which he tries to escape by refusing to participate altogether. He tries to escape into a fantasy world where things go his way and his desires are easier to reach."
Your Actual Problem #2
Longs the freedom to make his own decisions and plans without the criticism and restrictions of others. Uses his charm to deal with others and get what he wants.
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