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Originally Posted by Zee
I suppose the issue for me is that there's an element of secrecy involved in sleeping with five people in one night... it comes across as sly and shameful to me, how likely is it that you're gonna tell someone that you've already been with 1-4 people that night? Not very IMO... so there's deception involved and that isn't okay to me - which is why I made a point of pointing out the difference between that and group sex; because group sex, everyone knows what's going on and the chances are all of you have probably planned it and know you're all in the clear for STDs; or if you don't then you can at least get in touch with everyone if something crops up and there's no betrayal there, everyone has to accept responsibility... I don't have a problem with sex workers in Amsterdam, to give a better example, because they do regular STD checks and everybody knows what they're getting into if they sleep with a sex worker - you know they've probably had sex with at least one other person that day or will sleep with other people after you in that same night.
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That's kinda irrelevant though, cause it's just your assumption that someone isn't gonna be honest about how many people they've slept with.
If you're having a one night stand or are just randomly hooking up with someone, you're not gonna go looking for the virgin mary, you're looking for someone whose after the same thing you are, a release, if i was like that, I honestly wouldn't care how many people they'd slept with that night