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Old 19-01-2014, 06:47 AM #2
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..I think that the important thing is when you feel yourself that it's right to lose your virginity...I think that there is always pressure to do this, even if that pressure is put on yourself and it's through different stages/ages in people's lives..'all of my friends have partners/in a long term relationship/married etc...'...

..it is sad when it's self esteem though because it's probably just that you haven't met the right person who will help you see the amazing things about yourself when you see yourself through their eyes...I think what I find annoying though with the self esteem thing is that it effects people differently and with Liz, it's obviously meant a complete lack of sexual experience because she felt 'unlovable' in a physical sense..?...but with some, I think it can be more the opposite and a bit of a 'promiscuous' thing because they need that physical thing to feel loved and for a short time it raises their self esteem maybe, but then if it's a female, they will often be judged for it and called unpleasant names....


..but yeah, who cares when people lose their virginity or what their sex life is, so long as it's all consensual stuff..it's really a very personal thing...
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