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Originally posted by Lauren

But do you actually care ?
Do you genuinely worry for her and have sleepless nights?

Cos thats what I see as genuinely caring.
Otherwise, I couldn't give a rats **** about how many pills she's popping, or how she sees a negative out come from her life. Boo hoo.

The problem with what you say is apparently clear.

Jo O'Meara was a pop singer in the band, S Club 7.

They made loads of hits and was a fantastic success. If you asked children in schools about S Club 7 most of them would be able to sing one of their songs or if a song was played to them, they would recognize it immediately.

Jo was part of this band and certainly on of the main vocalists. Many concerts and interviews and loved by millions of fans.

I actually like their songs and never focused in on Jo O'Meara in particular. I was more into their music.

I don't forget those times and their performances either.

All of that went on for a very long time and kind of puts a three week ordeal in January's C.B.B in the shade.

I don't judge Jo O'Meara from what I saw in the house, but I also wasn't happy with the way she acted in the house, (even though it is edited material)

I was annoyed at how little everybody took notice of the bullying of Dirk Benedict. I spotted what was said to him, by Jo O'Meara and also, the other house-mates who were left, after Jade Goody left.

However, putting that to one side and even the Shilpa stuff, I am not happy to see Jo placed in this position.

I am not condoning bullying and I am not saying that Jo is an angel or even a devil.

She had a great time in S Club 7 & even had some solo material which she was happy to do.

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Jo O'Meara went into deep, deep depression after all of this. It affected her terribly. It was a strange situation to be labelled a racist and a bully, when she never considered these types of words to be labelled to her. But they were.

I have not got a clue, what is going through her mind.

I am not a fan of her in particular and do not know her. I can only make judgements on her, from what I see.

But, I am not going to ever say, that I want to see her commit suicide or "Pop pills", as you so quaintly put it!

I want to see her realise that what she and the other two girls did. offended many people. Whether Jo's story is either true or untrue regarding her saying to Davina, that she just didn't click with Shilpa and that was it?

Jo should have realised that people had been offended and said sorry to only those people, as it is important!

Jo's story in the Newspapers, whereby she said that she is not sorry and would do it all over again, was a terrible mistake.

Jo said that they got it all out of context, and it wasn't true.

Jo O'Meara made that error and the walls started to cave in on her. It all went wrong and even though, there were many that hated Jade Goody, at least Jade was sorry and was doing everything she could to mend the situation.

Jo was different and many hated what she did in the house, but, the haters and offended-ones decided to turn on Jo, as she was laughing at them.

Now, Jo has decided to make the situation more clearer.

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Jo appeared on GMTV a second time and has showed the viewers that she feels a lot better.

Now she must make the same sort of impact that Jade Goody has done.

Show how what she did was not so bad and go out there and try her best.

Sadly for Jo, she doesn't have Jade's money, or any where near. So, she could do something, which costs nothing, but makes some good.

I am not going to suggest anything, as it is up to her real supporters, friends and family to make things happen.

Jo will come through this and now that the investigation into apparent racism, which was never the case anyway, as people just jumped on silly words, which were only offensive but never racial.

Jo will know this now and the timing of her GMTV interview, etc.. was great and just after the CPS's verdict too.

But the damage is still there and she will still feel fear of what might be.

I don't wish her bad stuff, only for things to get better.

There has been enough of all of that already.

and for Jo's true fans

http://youtube.com/watch?v=-X0EjwF8o0g

Jo has got the flow