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Originally Posted by Seraphim
A bully is someone who repeatedly targets someone whom they perceive as weaker. Someone defending themself against criticism is not being a bully.
Dappy criticised Luisa over something she had said. His comments were sexist and hypocritical, and she pointed this out. Dappy became hectoring and obnoxious. Dappy has a criminal record for harrassing/bullying a woman who criticised him.
Lionel entered into the naughty room fun. Afterwards he turned on Luisa, blaming her for everything. Luisa defended herself. Neither was bullying.
Luisa "took the piss" from Ollie, and if the situation had been reversed, she'd have laughed and joined in. She first explained, then apologised sincerely when Ollie remained upset. This is not bullying.
Luisa / Jim both criticised each other during the nominations, which was part of the game. Luisa got irritated with Jim when she was cooking, because he was being interfering, controlling and perfectionistic. Luisa lectured Jim after his "Martyr Jim" performance because he slept on the floor, etc. Jim is bigger, stronger and tougher than Luisa, and she acknowledged it in saying that Linda protected her from Jim.
A typical bully would target someone vulnerable like Casey, but Luisa was supportive and sympathetic to Casey and told Lee "You can't treat people like that."
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she name called dappy she name called jim she labelled them endlessly day after day wrongly. she also dragged dappys mother into the argument at the first opprtunity which then escalaated the situation. she carried gossip back and forth amongst people throughout the show, deliberately creating conflict and upset. which makes her preaching to lee even more hypocritical...she joined a group in singling out jim throughout and bullying him verbally....labelling him a sexist pg with zero evidence or justification for doing so...she played up to her gang of bullies with abusive nominations too....she also acted with others in ridiculing and mocking ollie with the attempt to humiliate him....clearly she was concerned he was becoming more popular than her. which it ended up he was. ....she went into the room with lionel and she stole stuff and defied all rules....lionel did not blame her for everything, she however tried to lay most blame on him, wrongly....she failed to accept her own responsibility for cheating....she screamed and abused an 82 year old, no doubt partly because he was a man.....she also demanded equal rights yet she then went mad when a man dared treating her the same way....what a complete hypocrite.....additonally she then changed spots when linda went and admitted she had no reason to label jim sexist and had no evidence at all....
she admitted it was probably to do with linda and the group, so she is not only a group bully but also a spineless coward too.....just as she left she changed spots again going back to being a person who doesnt give a s%it about anyone...greta philosophy...her interview was shallow mean spirited and plain pathetic.
she is a sexist man hating bully. a vile attention seeker, whose claims to be a serious business person ended a long time ago. her crass trashy abusive behaviour is a disgrace and an appalling example to her daughter