[lostalex]

Just because you like aggressive sex under very specific circumstances, doesn't mean you want all men to be aggressive.

women like CERTAIN men, that they choose, and feel comfortable with, to be aggressive in some ways.

that doesn't mean that they would be attracted to an ugly man being aggressive.

it's always dangerous for this kind of thing to be discussed, because then some men think it means they should be aggressive towards women in order to be attractive.

and then you hear the usual crap from rejected men "well i thought women wanted an aggressive assertive man, why do they send mixed signals??"