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i would say you can. just look at bb and how that turns around for people and other people in the media. it doesn't take much for people to change their minds

i have noticed mentioning peoples names a lot seems to work . its like on the forums quoting people does as well.
i do neither lol i never call people by their names not even people i really know well. but I'm a weirdo freaky loon lol